A 6-week live bootcamp · begins October 5

Master the skills that make love easy

A couple laughing together

“Amy is… a dynamo of high-octane sex positivity.”

Ian Kerner
Ian Kerner, PhD
NYT best-selling author

“Turned my sex life around at 53… My husband and I are addicted to each other.”

Zeldiegirl
Zeldiegirl
Podbay

“Ian is exactly the kind of guide you want on your side when doing deep inner work.”

Ada Yeo
Ada Yeo
Founder & CEO, Shuffle

“The profound and deep nature of Ian’s work still impacts me to this day.”

Edward Dangerfield
Edward Dangerfield
Creator, Facilitated breathwork repatterning

Guest speakers

You'll learn alongside
some remarkable people.

Keeley Rankin

Keeley Rankin, MA

Intimacy & relationship coach

Sarah Tomchesson

Sarah Tomchesson

Intimacy coach & sex educator

Orpheus Black

Orpheus Black

Educator & speaker

For couples who love each other,
but keep hurting each other.

The six weeks

From stuck in the same fights → knowing which part took the wheel.

Meet the inner cast — the protector, the pleaser, the one who goes quiet — and build a simple map that settles the noise in minutes.

From hiding what you want → asking for it with a straight face.

Say the unsayable in a room built for it, and move past the filters that stand between you and what feels good.

From waiting to feel safe → making safety together.

Real-time regulation, solo and in tandem — settling your systems even mid-conflict. Not perfectly safe. Safer, on purpose.

From walking on eggshells → saying what’s true and staying close.

The real conversations — desires, grievances, repairs — held with ownership, curiosity, and vulnerability.

From pressurized, confusing, or clunky → intimacy that actually nourishes.

Learn to read it — your body’s language, and your partner’s — so desire stops being a guessing game.

From a great six weeks → a different relationship.

Build the check-ins, rituals, and repair moves that keep working long after the Zoom room closes.

Schedule
Mondays & Wednesdays · 5:30–7:00 PM PT
October 5 – November 11 · two 90-minute live sessions a week
Applications close October 4
Add the sessions to your calendar: Google · Apple / Outlook

Your instructors

Two guides, ten years,
one shared obsession.

Amy Baldwin

Amy Baldwin

Sex Educator, Coach & Author

Pleasure geek, co-host of the Shameless Sex podcast, and trained in the Somatica and Hakomi methods. For nearly 20 years I've helped people find more joy, confidence, and connection in their sex lives — through real talk, laughter, and zero shame.

Ian Stratton

Ian Stratton

Transformation Coach & Relationship Nerd

A lifelong healing nerd, blending IFS, somatic psychotherapy, and breathwork into one simple aim: actual change. I create spaces safe enough to be honest — to befriend the parts of yourself you've spent years hating. I love this work, and I can't wait to meet you.

A few things before you jump in

Good to know

We curate for safety
We review every application to build a group that feels trusting, respectful, and ready for this kind of work.
Beginners welcome
No experience with IFS, somatics, or "deep work" needed — just curiosity and willingness to show up.
Private, not public
Your details stay confidential. We'll never share anything personal outside the facilitation team.

Enrollment

$750

per couple

The cost increases $5 per day to light a fire under your butts 🔥🍑🔥

Apply at today’s price

Applying locks today’s price. If you’re accepted, you’ll have two weeks to decide.

Scholarships available

No one turned away for lack of funds

Choose your schedule

Can't make a session live? Move through it at your own rhythm.

“Amy doesn’t teach from a pulpit — she meets you in the mess with warmth, useful insights, and gallows humor.”

Kyle Thiermann
Kyle Thiermann
Author & host, The Kyle Thiermann Show

“This guide will help you and your partner transform your beliefs, practices, and mindsets around sex.”

Nate Klemp
Nate Klemp, PhD
Author & philosopher

“There are few people on this planet who can guide and hold space the way Ian can…”

Dr. Willow Brown
Dr. Willow Brown
Taoist sexologist

“Ian has been a great help to me. I have already recommended him to friends, and will continue to do so!”

Gene Stone
Gene Stone
#1 NYT best-selling author