A 6-week live bootcamp · begins October 5
“Amy is… a dynamo of high-octane sex positivity.”

“Turned my sex life around at 53… My husband and I are addicted to each other.”

“Ian is exactly the kind of guide you want on your side when doing deep inner work.”

“The profound and deep nature of Ian’s work still impacts me to this day.”

Guest speakers

Intimacy & relationship coach

Intimacy coach & sex educator
Educator & speaker
The six weeks
From stuck in the same fights → knowing which part took the wheel.
Meet the inner cast — the protector, the pleaser, the one who goes quiet — and build a simple map that settles the noise in minutes.
From hiding what you want → asking for it with a straight face.
Say the unsayable in a room built for it, and move past the filters that stand between you and what feels good.
From waiting to feel safe → making safety together.
Real-time regulation, solo and in tandem — settling your systems even mid-conflict. Not perfectly safe. Safer, on purpose.
From walking on eggshells → saying what’s true and staying close.
The real conversations — desires, grievances, repairs — held with ownership, curiosity, and vulnerability.
From pressurized, confusing, or clunky → intimacy that actually nourishes.
Learn to read it — your body’s language, and your partner’s — so desire stops being a guessing game.
From a great six weeks → a different relationship.
Build the check-ins, rituals, and repair moves that keep working long after the Zoom room closes.
Your instructors
Pleasure geek, co-host of the Shameless Sex podcast, and trained in the Somatica and Hakomi methods. For nearly 20 years I've helped people find more joy, confidence, and connection in their sex lives — through real talk, laughter, and zero shame.
A lifelong healing nerd, blending IFS, somatic psychotherapy, and breathwork into one simple aim: actual change. I create spaces safe enough to be honest — to befriend the parts of yourself you've spent years hating. I love this work, and I can't wait to meet you.
A few things before you jump in
Enrollment
per couple
The cost increases $5 per day to light a fire under your butts 🔥🍑🔥
Apply at today’s priceApplying locks today’s price. If you’re accepted, you’ll have two weeks to decide.
No one turned away for lack of funds
Can't make a session live? Move through it at your own rhythm.
“Amy doesn’t teach from a pulpit — she meets you in the mess with warmth, useful insights, and gallows humor.”

“This guide will help you and your partner transform your beliefs, practices, and mindsets around sex.”

“There are few people on this planet who can guide and hold space the way Ian can…”

“Ian has been a great help to me. I have already recommended him to friends, and will continue to do so!”
